Women should avoid offering money to their spouses, according to a marital counselor, since it will make them sluggish.
According to the Ugandan counselor identified as Zaituni Kakyama, even if a woman can afford to help her partner financially, she should not do so.
In her opinion, unlike men, God made women to have a desire for more than they need, particularly clothing and shoes, so that men are driven to work continually and not become lazy.
“Whether she gets more money than he does, he has to take care of his wife and family as a head,” she said, as quoted by tuko.co.ke.
Men, Kakyama suggested, should let women spend their money so that they may work harder for more.
She even went further to share her personal story, saying: “I don’t give my man money because when I do, that leads to his destruction when he gets into the comfort zone of being given.”
She also advised ladies to exercise moderation when in love with their spouse so that they are not too upset if the relationship fails.
She also bemoaned the fact that some men believe that all women want is food, automobiles, and the like, and hence do not go out of their way to make their wives happy.
“You find women from such marriages saying their men don’t love them. Remember how you convinced that woman to marry you, small things matter.”
Regardless of the contentious advise, Kakyama urged women to put their egos aside and remain committed and polite to their spouses, no matter how successful they are.