Zakia Kunge, a singer from Ghana, claims that fewer people, particularly women, are being married in arranged unions.
Her research suggests that the primary motivation for marriage is changing from romantic passion to pragmatic considerations like meeting basic requirements.
As far as she is concerned, women should only marry men who love them more than they love themselves.
“I was told something really controversial by at least three married ladies and they all urged me to marry a guy who loves me more than I love him and I believe I agree with them,” she added.=
Mercy Bee, also known as the “Ekumfi Princess,” was recently interviewed on e.tvGhana’s “Girl Vibes Show,” where she made the following recommendation: “To be safe, women should be with men who love them more than they love them because such people will treat you better than the others because they love you more.”
She said that you can count on your spouse to be there for you forever if he or she loves you more than themselves.
“Men, being the complex creatures that they are, tend to be quite loyal once they’ve decided to commit to you. Because nothing can come between the two of you once he realizes you are the one he wants to be with. In contrast, “they take advantage of you if you’re constantly sobbing over him and always around him, as most of our females do nowadays,” she said.